Safe meetups and verified profiles

Updated October 9, 2026

Meeting new people should be fun, not scary. Here's how Let's Have Fun Together keeps the community real and adults-only, and some simple tips for any first meetup.

Built-in safety

• Verified adults only. Everyone verifies with a government ID and a live selfie. 18+ only, no exceptions.
• Block and report in one tap. Reports are reviewed by a real team, and serious ones are handled fast.
• Trusted contacts and check-in timer. Add a trusted contact and start a timer before a meetup. If you don't check in, they get an alert.
• Your photos stay yours. Your @username watermark on photos, no download button, and optional photo blur.
• Location stays private. Others see a rough distance only. Live location is shared only with friends you choose, and you can stop anytime.
• Zero tolerance. No minors, no harassment, no hate, and no buying or selling sex.

First meetup tips

1. Video call first so you know who you're meeting.
2. Meet in a busy public place, like a bar, café or restaurant.
3. Get there and home on your own.
4. Tell a friend where you'll be, or use the check-in timer.
5. Watch your drink and trust your gut. You can leave anytime.

If you are ever in danger, call 911. For LGBTQ+ support, the Trevor Project (thetrevorproject.org) and the LGBT National Help Center (lgbthotline.org) are free and confidential.

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